No one enjoys dealing with our parents as they age; in fact, many lack experience with it altogether. Adult children must often step in as caregivers which can be stressful for all parties involved and lead to conversations regarding long-term care that should take place between families.
At this stage, it’s crucial to pay close attention to any subtle changes you notice in your parent or loved one, which could indicate health or social problems that necessitate immediate action, such as an appetite decline or sudden inability to walk. For those living far from their elderly parent(s), checking in regularly as well as setting up an ongoing schedule of visits are both vital.
Consider organizing and storing family history artifacts such as recipes, letters, photographs and toys correctly to prevent damage and deterioration. A professional conservator can also help ensure these items can be enjoyed for many generations to come.
Approach these conversations with an aim of actively listening to and helping your older loved ones feel heard, rather than telling them how they should respond or accept their situation. Burdening them with too much information at once may cause anxiety and increase fear of losing control.